2014年の研究を紹介します。男性は、女性の優しさ 献身さに魅力を感じますが 女性は実際そうではないようです。むしろ、若干優しさに対して嫌悪感すら抱いてしまうようです。
Responsiveness may signal to a potential partner that one is concerned with her or his welfare, and may therefore increase sexual interest in this person. Research shows, however, that this proposition holds true for men, but not for women.
https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/0146167214543879
